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Why saying No might be the most helpful thing you can say

Why saying No might be the most helpful thing you can say

Do you find saying No difficult? Do you ever find yourself doing something you don’t want to do or haven’t...

Do you worry about what you will talk about when you network?

Do you worry about what you will talk about when you network?

Do you worry that when you go networking you will run out of things to say or there’ll be awkward...

Could a checklist be all that is holding you back?

Could a checklist be all that is holding you back?

A friend of mine recently told me why they hate presenting. They were asked to deliver a short presentation for...

What are your words saying about you?

What are your words saying about you?

Recently I’ve been thinking about the words we choose to use at work, day to day and when speaking to...

How to handle “comparitanitus”

How to handle “comparitanitus”

Most people I meet suffer from this at some level, especially when it comes to presenting. You watch someone else...

Do you have a watchword for the year?

Do you have a watchword for the year?

Stephen Covey talks about an emotional bank account and Cialdini about reciprocity and I think they’re both worth considering as...

How to stay cheerful when everything tells you that you shouldn’t be.

How to stay cheerful when everything tells you that you shouldn’t be.

If you have access to the news at the moment then it may feel hard to stay cheerful. There’s a...

Why self-talk matters

Why self-talk matters

Do you tell yourself stories about what is, has or will happen? Or provide yourself with a running commentary as...

What do you do if you’ve upset someone?

What do you do if you’ve upset someone?

A client’s team member upset one of their colleagues the other day. They didn’t mean to; to be honest they...

Are your worries stopping you from getting things done?

Are your worries stopping you from getting things done?

Do you ever find yourself worrying so much about what might happen that you end up not doing the things...

How to boost your confidence

How to boost your confidence

According to the Cambridge English Dictionary confidence is “the quality of being certain of your abilities” and “having trust in...

Do others call you aggressive, unassertive or assertive?

Do others call you aggressive, unassertive or assertive?

And what do they mean? What behaviours do they see to make them say that and what’s the difference? I’d...

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